NumptyNuts
02-28-06, 04:56 PM
OK - Kids natural dad sends us a CD today full of snaps of him to add to a website. A website I may add that 'Lottie & I' do together prob one of the very few things I can teach her.
I dont want his face on the site, not one I am working on with her, yes hes her dad but if he wants a page he can go set one up for £50.
Anyhow I mailed him about it - see below -
XXXX,
Just a quick mail,
I understand from Lottie that you have sent her a cd with pictures on.
This is all very nice and everything though I will not be adding them on my server, I understand its for Lottie's web page though this is a project which is funded for by myself. You need to realise you are the guy that went off with Kate's best friend and started a new family, I don't want you face all over my web servers.
Its quite simple, I can be civil with you though certain things cross the line and this I am afraid is where I have to draw the line. Lottie can by all means set a site up to publish your images etc, maybe you can do this with her as separate project her?
You currently contribute nothing towards Lottie's upbringing and what's more have not shown any attempt to do so - but that's fine I understand you are sick man currently fighting some disease which has stopped you working for a period of time and have another young family and partner to support.
The trip to Japan is a fantastic gesture and opportunity for Lotz I know that while in Japan you ensure Lottie does everything she wants and can do during the trip and for that I take my hat of to you. I do not however feel happy with the way in which you handled it as you did not have the decency to talk to Kate first of all.
Despite what you may think we also plan for things esp round school holidays a phone call before hand to Kate may have been a nice idea.
Whether any of us like it or not there is a clear divide between Lottie two life's, there's a level of tolerance and I think you need to respect that.
Mark some of your actions over the past 12 months are shocking, you play a dangerous game and tread a fine line sooner or later its going to bite you in the ass. Lottie needs a father not a sugar daddy, she needs to spend time with her Brother / Sister after all they are the ONLY good thing she has gained from you inability to keep your hands to your self.
Mark please do me a favour, take you pictures and do your own project, save everyone a lot of pain as under no circumstances will they be added to my web servers, I would not expect you to allow it if it were the other way round. The kids that's fine they have no history or have nothing to do with your divorce, but yourself and Donna - its just not going to happen.
Hope all is well with you and you are feeling better, would like to give Lotz some cash to take to Japan so if you can figure out the best way to do this i.e. if you are buying Travellers chqs - giving Lottie cash is not the smartest thing to do as I am sure you can understand
let me know,
Get well soon
Regards
Paul
I dont want his face on the site, not one I am working on with her, yes hes her dad but if he wants a page he can go set one up for £50.
Anyhow I mailed him about it - see below -
XXXX,
Just a quick mail,
I understand from Lottie that you have sent her a cd with pictures on.
This is all very nice and everything though I will not be adding them on my server, I understand its for Lottie's web page though this is a project which is funded for by myself. You need to realise you are the guy that went off with Kate's best friend and started a new family, I don't want you face all over my web servers.
Its quite simple, I can be civil with you though certain things cross the line and this I am afraid is where I have to draw the line. Lottie can by all means set a site up to publish your images etc, maybe you can do this with her as separate project her?
You currently contribute nothing towards Lottie's upbringing and what's more have not shown any attempt to do so - but that's fine I understand you are sick man currently fighting some disease which has stopped you working for a period of time and have another young family and partner to support.
The trip to Japan is a fantastic gesture and opportunity for Lotz I know that while in Japan you ensure Lottie does everything she wants and can do during the trip and for that I take my hat of to you. I do not however feel happy with the way in which you handled it as you did not have the decency to talk to Kate first of all.
Despite what you may think we also plan for things esp round school holidays a phone call before hand to Kate may have been a nice idea.
Whether any of us like it or not there is a clear divide between Lottie two life's, there's a level of tolerance and I think you need to respect that.
Mark some of your actions over the past 12 months are shocking, you play a dangerous game and tread a fine line sooner or later its going to bite you in the ass. Lottie needs a father not a sugar daddy, she needs to spend time with her Brother / Sister after all they are the ONLY good thing she has gained from you inability to keep your hands to your self.
Mark please do me a favour, take you pictures and do your own project, save everyone a lot of pain as under no circumstances will they be added to my web servers, I would not expect you to allow it if it were the other way round. The kids that's fine they have no history or have nothing to do with your divorce, but yourself and Donna - its just not going to happen.
Hope all is well with you and you are feeling better, would like to give Lotz some cash to take to Japan so if you can figure out the best way to do this i.e. if you are buying Travellers chqs - giving Lottie cash is not the smartest thing to do as I am sure you can understand
let me know,
Get well soon
Regards
Paul